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Back in 2006, I made a trip to the Australian capital for a medical school interview. My plan was to book lodging when I arrived, however once I got there, a big convention was in town and every single youth hostels and affordable lodging were fully booked.

Coming from Singapore, the idea crossed my mind the possibility of bed down in the airport – but quickly found Canberra airport, not like the one back home, does not operate around the clock. With no idea what my next move should be and feeling increasingly desperate, I caught public transport and began walking in the direction of the casino, believing I might spend the evening in an establishment that was open through the night. This was not ideal at my peak to succeed at an interview the following day, but as a cash-strapped student, I couldn’t afford.

Our society requires more people with such compassion.

Apparently, I appeared lost since a female student spotted me loitering in the city and wondered whether I needed help. I recounted the story of my accommodation crisis and immediately she said I could crash on a spare mattress of her dormitory at ANU – which was perfect, considering that was where the important interview was the following day. She went further by offering some food: one stuffed baguettes she had taken home her evening job. I was able to use a hot shower and a protected spot to rest to sleep.

In retrospect, I now understand the significant risk she took as a young woman letting a man she had only just encountered stay in her room. At that time I was in a bubble of male privilege and did not consider about things like that. As a dad now, I’m amazed she took that chance – and remain deeply appreciative.

I didn’t end up attending the Australian National University, and I lost touch with the student afterwards, but I’ve never forgotten her amazing act of generosity. It is my wish life has repaid her good deed abundantly. Our society requires more individuals with such compassion.